One Month Gone !!!

Time and tide wait for none! - I can understand That's Proofed one, but Why so fast?  I am in still fresh mood of  New Year, Of course still in in the mood of "Freshly married"  :) but finished 8 months. Started with No New Year Resolution this time.. that's makes me  realize that lacking some thing...:( 

These thirty days... spent just like without knowing how i am spending. God Provide some strength to plan out some thing to my career and my dreams :) :)

Last Post of the Year 2010 !!!

Dear Friends...!

Hope you are in Bindaas Mood, As we draw to the end of 2010, I find myself reflecting over the past year. Interviewing Myself :)

What is The New Year Resolution?

Most of 2010 Resolutions List carry forward to New Year 2011 :) Plus some more added.

Are you Traveling Anywhere?

Nothing, I am not going to Travel anywhere, Last two years 2009,2010 celebrated in Bangalore :)

So What will you do then?

Decided to Spend With Family this Year.

Any Big Changes in 2010?

Yeah.. List goes..! Put on Weight(4 Kgs), Changed the Marital Status Single to Married in all Networking Sites. Yes... No More Bachelor Life :( Though Enjoying the Beauty of married Life :) plus changed my working company..etc

Why Blogging is Less?

This year i am not able to maintain the continuity as i Got Less chance to Ride on Internet world. Need to Manage the Time efficiently....!

Finally..?

May this New Year bring many opportunities your way, to explore every joy of life and may your resolutions for the days ahead stay firm, turning all your dreams into reality and all your efforts into great achievements.

Well, Good Bye 2010, And Bye My Dear Friends.. ! Enjoy and Have Fun Filled Time... :)

When you say things in anger

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper.  His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.  The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence.  Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down.  He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.

The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.  He said, you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence.  The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. 

You can put a knife in a man and draw it out.  It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there." A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. 

Beauty of Kerala

Friends..

Recently i have been to KERALA. Here with posting some pics..

For more snaps.... check out at FB: http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=231757&id=566948639&l=d82ae81bd7

Rainy Rain ... !!!

Since two and half months, Every day i am tasting the Rain :) I think this year we have rains for a long time ..! Recently i have been to Kerala, there also continuous rains... ! 

How about you friends?   Enjoying aah??

MESSAGE FROM THE POLICE !!!

Got as a Forwarded mail. Informative..
 
Warning..!!! !
 
Just last weekend on Friday night we parked in a public car park. As we drove away I noticed a sticker on the rear window of the car. When I took it off (after I got home), it was a receipt for petrol. Luckily my friend had told me not to stop, as it would be someone waiting for me to get out of the car. Then we received this email yesterday.
 
WARNING FROM POLICE
 
THIS APPLIES TO BOTH WOMEN AND MEN
 
BEWARE OF PAPER ON THE BACK WINDOW OF YOUR VEHICLE.
 
NEW WAY TO DO CAR-JACKINGS.
 
Heads up everyone! Please keep this circulating. You walk across the car park, unlock your car and get inside. You start the engine and put it into Reverse.
 
When you look into the rear-view mirror to back out of your space, you notice a piece of paper stuck to the middle of the rear screen. So you stop, and jump out of your car to remove that paper (or whatever it is), because it is obstructing your view. Then when you reach the back of your car, is when the car-jackers appear out of nowhere. They jump in and take off. They practically run you over as they speed off.
 
And guess what, ladies? I bet your purse is still in the car. So now the car-jacker has your car, your home address, your money, and your keys. Your home and your whole identity are compromised!
 
BEWARE OF THIS NEW SCHEME THAT IS NOW BEING USED.
 
If you see a piece of paper stuck to the back window, lock your doors and just drive away. Remove the paper later. And be thankful that you read this e-mail. I hope you will forward this to friends and family, especially to women. A purse contains all kinds of personal information and identification documents, and you certainly do NOT want this to fall into the wrong hands.
 
Please follow and tell others :
 
Similarly If you are driving at night and were attacked with EGGS  on your car's windshield , do not operate your wiper or spray any water.  Eggs mixed with water become milky and block your vision up to 92.5 %. You are forced to stop at road side and become victim of robbery. This is new technique used by robbers. Take care and Drive Safe.

Succesful Relationships !!!

A GOOD ONE 4 those who are married or are going to get married.. Here we go..!

 

During one of seminars, a woman asked a common question.

She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"

I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said,

"It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a

completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love...

Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage! , you wi ll notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage..

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work,a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love."

Because it takes time, effort, and energy . And most importantly, it takes WISDOM . You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable...you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

"No one falls in love by choice, it is by CHANCE.

No one stays in love by chance, it is by WORK.

And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by choice" 

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Moving to Explore New Colors ...!

Meeting and Parting are two sides of Relationship.The time has approached me to say goodbye to Big Blues. I just want to take an opportunity to thank my colleagues, and the management for their support in my growth. This is really a cheerful moment for me working with them.
 

I convey my deep appreciation for the support, guidance and directions received from all of them in discharge of my functions. I shall always cherish the golden moments of my association with all the team members.
 

I have enjoyed my tenure and it was an enriching experience working with them. I am looking forward to this new challenge and will be starting a new phase of my career.

Once again I remain thankful to the Company for giving me an opportunity.I would like to have the same good bonding with all....

Who is Poor..........Who is Rich...........!

This is one of the best I have read in a long time.

One day, the father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the express purpose of showing him how poor people live.

They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.

On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, "How was the trip?"

"It was great, Dad."

"Did you see how poor people live?" the father asked.

"Oh yeah," said the son.

"So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?" asked the father.

The son answered:

"I saw that we have one dog and they had four.

We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end.

We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night.

Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon.

We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight.

We have servants who serve us, but they serve others.

We buy our food, but they grow theirs.

We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them."

The boy's father was speechless.

Then his son added, “Thanks Dad for showing me how poor we are."

Isn't perspective a wonderful thing? Makes you wonder what would happen if we all gave thanks for everything we have, instead of worrying about what we don't have.

Appreciate every single thing you have!

Pass this on to friends and acquaintances and help them refresh their perspective and appreciation.

"Life is too short and friends are too few."

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Appraisal Process....Excellent one !!!

The Art of Appraisal

Big Boss: This year your performance was good, excellent and outstanding. So, your rating is "average".
Kumar: What? How come 'average'?
Big Boss: Because...err...uhh...you lack domain knowledge.
Kumar: But last year you said I am a domain expert and you put me in this project as a domain consultant.
Big Boss: Oh is it? Well, in that case, I think your domain knowledge has eroded this year.
Kumar: What???
Big Boss: Yes, I didn't see you sharing knowledge on Purchasing domain.
Kumar: Why would I? Because I am not in Purchasing, I am in Manufacturing.
Big Boss: This is what I don't like about you. You give excuse for everything.
Kumar: Huh? *Confused*
Big Boss: Next, you need to improve your communication skills.
Kumar: Like what? I am the one who trained the team on "Business Communication", you sat in the audience and took notes, you remember?
Big Boss: Oh is it? Errr...well..I mean, you need to improve your Social Pragmatic Affirmative Communication.
Kumar: Huh? What the hell is that? *Confused*
Big Boss: See! That's why you need to learn about it.
Kumar:*head spinning*
Big Boss: Next, you need to sharpen your recruiting skills. All the guys you recruited left within 2 months.
Kumar: Well, not my mistake. You told them you will sit beside them and review their code, and most resigned the next day itself. Couple of them even attempted suicide.
Big Boss: *stunned* (recovers from shock) Err...anyway, I tried to give you a better rating, but our Normalization process gave you only 'average'.
Kumar: Last year that process gave me 'excellent'. This year just 'average'? Why is this process pushing me up and down every year?
Big Boss: That's a complicated process. You don't want to hear.
Kumar: I'll try to understand. Go ahead.
Big Boss: Well, we gather in a large room, write down the names of sub-ordinates in bits of paper, and throw them up in the air. Whichever lands on the floor gets 'average', whichever lands on table gets 'good', whichever we manage to catch gets 'excellent' and whichever gets stuck to ceiling gets 'outstanding'.
Kumar: (eyes popping out) What? Ridiculous! So who gets 'poor' rating?
Big Boss: Those are the ones we forget to write down.
Kumar: What the hell! And how can paper bits stick to ceiling for 'outstanding'?
Big Boss: Oh no, now you have started questioning our 20 year old organizational process!
Kumar: *faints* 

MMTS Service - Bit Better !!!

It gives me the pleasure of a get away without actually even getting out of the city.  Indeed, what you see is what you get, and what you get is something else ;). Yesterday i have traveled in MMTS (Multi Modal Transport System) with one my colleague as she has been suggesting me since day one to travel in. because we would be having comfort and peaceful traveling. The route was  Lingampally-Falaknuma.  We have boarded at Hi tech City Station which is near to our office and thought to get down at Secunderabad from there i can catch bus to vanasthali puram hardly 45 minutes drive away. 

The Train started exactly at 17:30 (seems i am lucky yesterday) and reached secunderabad at 17:55 routed via Borabanda , Bharath Nagar, Fateh Nagar, Nature Cure Hospital, Begumpet , Sanjeevaiah Park and James Street. After James Street due to platform/signaling it was stopped for 3-5 mins at Ranigunz bridge.  But All the way it saved plenty of time and polluted atmosphere.

However, Service can  improved to be  better and best. facilities at Hi-tech City Station was worst and think same with other stations as well. for buying ticket itself took me more than 10 minutes as there was a single counter for men/ladies. to cross from one platform to another platform there is only one Foot over bridge is available that is also too far. if we have another two, it would very convince to passengers when they arrive/departure from the station.  I heard  the number of trains during peak hours were less. Apart from that Frequency between trains is too max, it should be less.  As we do not have dedicated lines for MMTS using the same path which intercity / national trains might be causing the problem. 

From Hitech City to APIIC (IT parks) And vice verse we have free two shuttle services(Tempo Buses) for every one hour during morning and evening times. Eventually  getting into the that tempo bus is very difficult.  Need to rush from the platform and run towards this bus by that time it fills. Need to wait for one more hour or go for Auto which again hits our packet for 40-50 bucks.

But when compare to travel in Bus, it is good to prefer train.  problem here for me is i need to get down at malakpet/secunderabad which again 45 mins - one hour journey to my home ;(

Looking for a Change? - its Good time to Move !

Are you not getting paid enough by what you expect in your company? Is your Boss is not supportive? you are a work-a-holic nature but your manager is not recognizing your efforts? Are you looking for a change in your Job?  Unhappiness in a workplace?Are you looking for financial growth in your career? Looking for a work location change? Then I Suggest  its good time to Move.

"People leave managers not companies" as its written and proved when you are hard working nature you can work in any company. No need to stick to your boss and loose your confidence, skills ..etc because Job satisfaction is what at the end of the day desired by an individual.

People leave the companies depending on aspiration, needs , some go for money, while others for better responsibilities, some for challenges, opportunities for growth. Since two months i have noticed there is lot of attrition rate and  recruitment  rate is growing much. Neither loss for the company nor loss for an employee. if any employee has strategical thinking about his career and financial growth company applies more strategics. There is huge walk-in and schedule drives going for experts and as well as entry levels in MN C's and  small organizations.

Are You looking for a change? Go ahead.. No need to step back. Wish you all the Best...!