Last Post of the Year 2010 !!!

Dear Friends...!

Hope you are in Bindaas Mood, As we draw to the end of 2010, I find myself reflecting over the past year. Interviewing Myself :)

What is The New Year Resolution?

Most of 2010 Resolutions List carry forward to New Year 2011 :) Plus some more added.

Are you Traveling Anywhere?

Nothing, I am not going to Travel anywhere, Last two years 2009,2010 celebrated in Bangalore :)

So What will you do then?

Decided to Spend With Family this Year.

Any Big Changes in 2010?

Yeah.. List goes..! Put on Weight(4 Kgs), Changed the Marital Status Single to Married in all Networking Sites. Yes... No More Bachelor Life :( Though Enjoying the Beauty of married Life :) plus changed my working company..etc

Why Blogging is Less?

This year i am not able to maintain the continuity as i Got Less chance to Ride on Internet world. Need to Manage the Time efficiently....!

Finally..?

May this New Year bring many opportunities your way, to explore every joy of life and may your resolutions for the days ahead stay firm, turning all your dreams into reality and all your efforts into great achievements.

Well, Good Bye 2010, And Bye My Dear Friends.. ! Enjoy and Have Fun Filled Time... :)

A Good Message!--- Marriage !!!

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband.... “

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
 

Many of life's failures are people, who will not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

Some one does understand our problems !!!!

A Priest, a Doctor and an ENGINEER die and go to heaven, they hear

God's voice and it says:

" My dear sons I am really very sorry but the heaven is full and I can

accommodate only one of u, so to choose the right person, one by one

tell me what u have done in your lifetime. "

The Priest goes up first and says "well God I'm a priest, I am u r

humble servant and have spent all my life working to spread your

message."

The Doctor goes up next and says "well I'm a doctor and I have helped

thousands of people recover from their illnesses"

The ENGINEER goes up says "well I worked as a SOFTWARE ENGINEER and........",

before the SOFTWARE ENGINEER could say anything further, the heaven's

gates opened and God came with tears in his eyes and said to the

ENGINEER

         

 

"Say no more my son! Come with me, you have already been thru HELL...! "

Happy Diwali

Orkut Scraps

Onsite offer - Good one !!!

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I was in flight, was going to onsite once again, was very happy plane takes off, n takes me to the sky.
I looked outside the window, nice evening scene, feels like heaven.
I just lost myself in that beauty.
Someone's voice disturbed me "excuse me sir, would you like to have something?". I turned back, and was surprise to see my beautiful old schoolmate, Saakshi.
"Hey Saakshi, is that you, how come you... wow, you looks still the same, pretty.. in this Air-hostess suit"
"Saurabh, wo.....w, I can’t believe this is you.. ohh sorry I am on my job, will talk to you later"
she left smile on my face. I couldn’t believe in my eyes, It reminded me my school days memories.
How crazy I was about her, always followed her after the school, wrote love letters, but never dared to give one of them. Always looking at her in the class,
from last bench. she was the queen of our class. I fought with 2-3 other guys for her, how stupid I was.
I couldn’t stop myself, looking at her again, I was amazed to see that, she became more beautiful then she were at school.
she too looked at me and smile, then she said something to her fellow air-hostess, then they both started smiling.
I was clueless that what happened. her colleague was also damn pretty. Oh my god, today you fulfill one of my dream.
I thought of going there and having chat with her, but I knew that, it’s her job, so I stopped myself.
again started looking outside the window.
we were above the clouds making an awesome scene outside, also inside, because of her smile.
I got some courage, and pretended that I am going towards toilet.
I looked at her, she understood what I desired.
she came toward me and said : "extremely sorry yaar, I couldn’t talk to you much,
so say how are you, where have you been these many years, and what’s your success story? for what purpose you are going?"
"Hmmm... I was always there, it was you who left everything after school, I searched you, so many places wherever I could, but no existence of you. Then I completed my college, got a job in such a nice company, I didn’t know, my company will give me this much, still I m going for an onsite job, don’t know when will return back. you know, I got everything in my life except someone, with whom I can actually share my world, my success. someone..."
I looked straight into her eyes.. those blue eyes, I think she got the answer, who is that 'someone'
with some pain in her eyes, she said, "sorry got to go, will give you my number"
I again, sat back to my seat, very silent, looking outside, and hoping some answer.
it was dark outside by that time, some thunder in cloud, just like inside my heart.
then suddenly, plane started getting hiccups.. everyone got scared..
I saw Saakshi running towards mic, she made an announcement, that don’t be panic as they are facing a storm outside.
but plane started shaking badly, everyone started feeling it’s the last moment of their lives...
I keep on watching Saakshi, and she to me...
then something hit my back hard.. and there was a complete darkness in front of me..
deep silent, but I could still feel the shaking plane, and people's scream..
then someone shouted... 'Saaaauuuuraaabhhhhhhhhhhhh !!!!!'
"Saurabh, wake up you are again sleeping in office, wake up, I need that report urgently"
Damn.. I looked here-there, same ODC, no Onsite, no plane.. no Saakshi..
I stared at my PM in anger.. Because of you only, that plane crashed!!
 
I STILL DONT KNOW, WHY IT HAPPENS DAILY BETWEEN 2 TO 3 PM

When you say things in anger

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper.  His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.  The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence.  Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down.  He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.

The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.  He said, you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence.  The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. 

You can put a knife in a man and draw it out.  It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there." A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. 

Beauty of Kerala

Friends..

Recently i have been to KERALA. Here with posting some pics..

For more snaps.... check out at FB: http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=231757&id=566948639&l=d82ae81bd7

Rainy Rain ... !!!

Since two and half months, Every day i am tasting the Rain :) I think this year we have rains for a long time ..! Recently i have been to Kerala, there also continuous rains... ! 

How about you friends?   Enjoying aah??

MESSAGE FROM THE POLICE !!!

Got as a Forwarded mail. Informative..
 
Warning..!!! !
 
Just last weekend on Friday night we parked in a public car park. As we drove away I noticed a sticker on the rear window of the car. When I took it off (after I got home), it was a receipt for petrol. Luckily my friend had told me not to stop, as it would be someone waiting for me to get out of the car. Then we received this email yesterday.
 
WARNING FROM POLICE
 
THIS APPLIES TO BOTH WOMEN AND MEN
 
BEWARE OF PAPER ON THE BACK WINDOW OF YOUR VEHICLE.
 
NEW WAY TO DO CAR-JACKINGS.
 
Heads up everyone! Please keep this circulating. You walk across the car park, unlock your car and get inside. You start the engine and put it into Reverse.
 
When you look into the rear-view mirror to back out of your space, you notice a piece of paper stuck to the middle of the rear screen. So you stop, and jump out of your car to remove that paper (or whatever it is), because it is obstructing your view. Then when you reach the back of your car, is when the car-jackers appear out of nowhere. They jump in and take off. They practically run you over as they speed off.
 
And guess what, ladies? I bet your purse is still in the car. So now the car-jacker has your car, your home address, your money, and your keys. Your home and your whole identity are compromised!
 
BEWARE OF THIS NEW SCHEME THAT IS NOW BEING USED.
 
If you see a piece of paper stuck to the back window, lock your doors and just drive away. Remove the paper later. And be thankful that you read this e-mail. I hope you will forward this to friends and family, especially to women. A purse contains all kinds of personal information and identification documents, and you certainly do NOT want this to fall into the wrong hands.
 
Please follow and tell others :
 
Similarly If you are driving at night and were attacked with EGGS  on your car's windshield , do not operate your wiper or spray any water.  Eggs mixed with water become milky and block your vision up to 92.5 %. You are forced to stop at road side and become victim of robbery. This is new technique used by robbers. Take care and Drive Safe.

Happy Independence Day !!!

Happy Friendship Day !!!

My Perception About Inception

Today i have watched INCEPTION at IMAX with my regular crazy movie watching buds.  w aah. what a movie it is.. after a long time extremely experienced the Hollywood movie. Still i have lot of confusions in my mind that's why i am not going to share any thing in detail about this film. seems i need to watch three more times to get complete understand of the concept and presentation of it.

The basic theme of the story is like the idea of our dreams and how you design your ideas and projecting the emotions,thoughts in dreams and more about mind traveling.  when some one enters into your dreams and steals the ideas which you do not know and going into dreams into dreams into dreams.. i guess five levels.. which i remember. changing the thought process of you in your dreams.. so called inception ;)

Over all a high worthy watching movie i can say.. most of them including me.. is not having clear picture on concept. hence i can't say exceptions about it, however Photography is highlight and BGM is adds value.

Thanks to Hollywood  for delivering this film...!

Look Here !!!

How are they?  I am experimenting My Digi Camera at Infy ;)

How is Marriage Life !!!

"How is Marriage Life?",  I have been hearing these words from sms, phones, mails, friends, relatives.. etc..! No matter what, i am fed up with in replying them. I think its common way of asking some one after he or she getting married. Any differences you found before marriage and after marriage..? Interesting questions.. Lot of data which we can give to Bachelors..  :)

 

According to me, at times i was thinking to answer them in a meaningful manner but end up in saying "Fine", "Good".. then replies from them as Just Fine? Just God? No difference aah..? you were in the same state even before marriage Right? Well.. Then i was re framing my answers saying is I am very happy, its New Life.. New Responsibilities.. New Experience..
As both groom and bride comes from different background in terms of habits, family environment, different tastes.. which leads to better understanding of each other. At initial days.. there will be a magical drama.. like Silly Silly fights, complaints.. misunderstandings..overwhelmed love.. ego.. all.. at bottom line to reach the better understanding of each other. So Lately Couples.. Enjoy and cherish each moment :)